Common Behavior Clues

When we slow down and observe, behavior can give us important information about what a child may be experiencing.

• Crying or meltdowns
  May signal overwhelm or difficulty coping with big feelings.

• Hitting, yelling, or throwing
  Often a sign that big emotions are present, but words or strategies are limited.

• Shutting down or withdrawing
  Can indicate overstimulation, uncertainty, or a need for emotional safety.

• Refusing or saying “no”
  May reflect a child’s need for control, predictability, or clearer expectations.

At Little Detectives: Big Feelings, we help children recognize these clues and build the tools to express themselves safely.